Sometimes, you meet someone you are really into, but how do you know if he feels the same or if he just wants to be friends? Here are the top 5 signs that show he definitely likes you.
- How he acts around you
Sometimes, body language says more than words. Women have significantly more body language signs, as compared to men, that show they are definitely into a man. Men, however, have a few signs that show they are really into you.
A man may subconsciously try to impress you or show dominant behavior around you. For example, he may spread his feet apart or lean back in his chair to take up more space. Another key sign is if he looks at you a lot. And if he leans towards you when you’re together, casually touches you or make lots of eye contact, all good body language signs.
- How he treats you
Does he always show up for you? Does he treat you differently at different times? A responsible guy, who genuinely like you, will make plans with you and try to stick with the plans. In other words, he is reliable.
If anything changes, he will text or call, and he won’t ghost you without good reasons. If he really likes you, he may start to act differently when he’s around you. If a guy is friendly with everyone and talks to other women the same way he talks to you, his friendliness may be a nice social gesture but means he may see you as a friend. But, if he acts differently when he’s with you, in a closer more loving way, that’s a sign you’re special to him. Especially if he’s always trying to sit close to you in a group setting or put his arm on the back of your chair, all signs he definitely likes you.
- You are a part of his life with friends
If his friends know about you, it’s a good sign. When a guy is not serious about you, he may not share your existence with his friends. His friends not knowing about you,s may be a sign he may leave you anytime or he may have a player reputation with his friends.
On the other hand, if a guy is serious about you, he may ask your friends to find out what you like and get some useful tips. If you are already dating, sharing your relationship with friends can be important, especially if he speaks highly of you. If he compliments you, whether privately or publicly, it’s a strong indicator that he likes you.
- He shares who he is with you
For anyone who is genuinely interested in you, they will want to know more about you, from your childhood story to your biggest dream. He will share his stories and ask questions about your life. If he always listens carefully when you talk and wants to know more about you, those are all good signs.
A lot of guys feel like they have to prove themselves, so they may brag about themselves. However, when you ask about him and then he never gives you direct answer or always says vague and general answers, that’s a sign he is either not confident or doesn’t feel you are close to him. Although everyone has different personalities, some are shy and not talkative, they should at least give you an honest straight answer. Basically, if you feel like they are alluding you, that is not a good sign.
- He wants to plan a future with you
It’s a bit early to talk about the future when you just met. But if you have been dating for a few months, discussing the future is a big indicator that your relationship is moving in a good direction. The intention to share more things together and plan a future together is the biggest sign for a lasting relationship.
The future doesn’t need to be something big five years down the road, it could be as short term as planning to see a movie with you next weekend. If he’s really into you, he generally wants to see you more often and do more things together. You’ll start to share each other’s hobbies and get more sensitive about each other’s mood and personality. Having a plan towards the future is always a good sign.
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And if you’re lucky, the top 5 signs that show he definitely likes you are already happening in your relationship.